The Tea Glossary: Dating Slang & Terms

Understand the language of modern dating and what it means to "spill the tea." Our glossary helps you navigate the conversation on SpillHerTea and beyond.

Spill the Tea

To "spill the tea" means to share gossip, news, or personal information. In the context of SpillHerTea, it refers to sharing honest, anonymous reviews and experiences about your dating life to help others date more safely.

Spill Her Tea

A variation of "spill the tea," often used to refer to sharing information specifically about a female individual. On SpillHerTea, the platform is for everyone, and the term embodies the idea of sharing any relevant dating "tea" to promote safety and transparency.

Red Flag

A warning sign or a signal that something is wrong in a relationship or with a person's behavior. Examples include dishonesty, disrespect, or controlling behavior.

Catfishing

The act of creating a fake online identity to deceive someone into a relationship. SpillHerTea's reverse image search feature is a tool to help defend against catfishing.