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Safely Spill the Tea on Your Dating Life.
SpillHerTea is the modern dating safety network. Spill the tea, share real reviews, and protect your dating life.
Features to Help You Spill the Tea Safely
Dating Safety Network
- Share anonymous quick, honest reviews.
- Keep friends informed and safer.
- Surface Solid, Warning, and Danger flags.
Fast Pulse Checks
- Post quick "Should I date them?" polls.
- Get instant yes/no vibes from the community.
- Decide with confidence in minutes.
Catfish Defense
- Spot recycled photos with reverse-image checks.
- Reduce risk before you match or meet.
- Catch fakes early.
Stay in the Know
- Get alerts when you're tagged or reviewed.
- See new flags and updates that matter to you.
- Control notifications - mute or personalize.
What Our Users Are Saying
“Finally a place to sense-check dates without the cringe.”
“The quick polls saved me from a time-waster. 10/10.”
“Feels like a group chat—organized. Safer choices, better dates.”
Real Dating Reviews: A Peek Inside
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